Everything You Ever Wanted Is Sitting On The Other Side Of Fear

By Audrey Pierson, Audrey Pierson Consulting

Taking on a sales role in the electronic security industry, or any industry, is not for the faint of heart. It requires persistence, confidence, and a deep belief in the value of the solutions we offer. And yet, even the most seasoned sales professionals can find themselves paralyzed by fear – of rejection, of not knowing enough, or of failure.

That’s why the quote by George Addair, “Everything you’ve ever wanted is sitting on the other side of fear,” resonates so powerfully with those of us in sales. It speaks to a fundamental truth: the very things we want most – success, recognition, financial security, fulfillment, are often just beyond the barriers we’re afraid to confront. 

The Fear Wall in Sales
In our industry, salespeople regularly face complex objections, tight competition, and high-stakes decisions. It’s easy to play it safe: to call on only warm leads, to avoid picking up the phone, or to stick with the same pitch because it’s comfortable, even when it’s no longer effective.

That comfort zone is exactly what stunts growth. The fear of cold calling a high-value prospect, asking for the sale, or reaching out to a business you are sure is working with a competitor. Those are the moments that separate average performers from sales leaders.

Every time we allow fear to dictate our actions, we forfeit opportunity. Conversely, every time we push through fear, we get closer to what we truly want – whether it’s a closed deal, reaching a personal milestone, or achieving a record-breaking month in revenue generation.

Reframing Fear as a Growth Signal
Fear doesn’t always mean danger. Often, it simply means growth is near. In fact, fear is often a signal that you’re moving in the right direction. When something feels just out of reach or uncomfortably bold, that’s where breakthrough lies.

For example, many salespeople hesitate to reach out to decision-makers directly. They worry they won’t know what to say or that they’ll get shut down. But the ability to build relationships with true decision-makers is one of the most powerful skills a salesperson can develop. It’s learned only by facing fear and doing it anyway.

The same applies to asking better questions during discovery, offering high-end systems when the customer hasn’t asked for them, or following up more assertively. These aren’t risky behaviors, they are brave ones, and brave behavior drives desired results.

Real Success Stories Are Built on Courage
Ask any top performer in the security industry how they got where they are, and you’ll hear stories of bold moves: quitting a stable job to pursue sales, switching markets when the old one dried up, investing in sales training, or pursuing a prospect everyone else had given up on.

These professionals didn’t wait until they weren’t afraid. They acted despite the fear.

How to Break Through the Fear
To help your sales team, or yourself, move past fear, start by identifying what’s really holding you back. Is it fear of not knowing the answer? Fear of hearing “no”? Fear of looking foolish? Acknowledge it, and then make the decision to act anyway.

Here are a few strategies:

  • Prepare intentionally. Confidence grows with preparation. Become knowledgeable about your product, your competitors, and your market.
  • Set daily fear-facing goals. Make one bold move a day, whether it’s a tough follow-up call or a stretch prospect.
  • Celebrate courageous action, not just results. Recognize the bravery it takes to step out of your comfort zone.
  • Get coaching and accountability. A good mentor or sales coach can help you reframe fear and take consistent action.

Final Thoughts
In sales, success isn’t just about technical knowledge or lead flow. It’s about courage. Every new client, promotion, or breakthrough goal lives on the other side of the fears you’re willing to face.

So the next time fear shows up, when you hesitate before dialing that number or second-guess quoting the premium system, remember this: Everything you’ve ever wanted is just on the other side.

Push through. Your successful future is waiting there.


Audrey Pierson is a seasoned expert with 35 years in the electronic security industry. She helps security sales teams and alarm dealers/integrators achieve top-tier results through her Security Sales Academy, offering online training and live coaching. Audrey also provides expert supervision via her Virtual Security Sales Manager program, equips new hires through the Security Industry QuickStartprogram as well as many other training opportunities.
Contact: 
www.audreypierson.com, 831-277-7447, audrey@audreypierson.com.

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